《傲慢与偏见》读书笔记怎么写？(11)

Darcy because William distorts all the facts about Darcy and portrays him as hypercritic.The transition comes when Elizabeth’s sister, Lydia, a superficial girl who follows exotic things and handsome man, elopes with William.Mr.Bennet pursues the errant Lydia and her suitor, and obliges them to marry — at the cost of paying off all of Wickham\\'s outstanding debts, and, in addition, giving the couple the substantial sum of ten thousand pounds.Elizabeth discovers that the amount was actually paid by Darcy.Upon learning of Darcy\\'s extraordinary generosity, coupled with the utmost discretion, Elizabeth\\'s inclinations towards him change.When the love between Jane and Mr.Bingley bloom, Darcy also approaches Elizabeth, and this time his love is returned in kind.
It’s obvious that Elizabeth and Darcy are distant from each other because of their prejudice.The series of events which they both
experienced give them the opportunity to understand one another and the time to reconcile their feelings for each other.Thus, their mutual
understanding is the foundation of their relationship and will lead them to a peaceful and lasting marriage.This relationship between Elizabeth and Darcy reveals the importance of knowing one\\'s partner before marriage.Moreover, despite the difference in social position, wealth, they give priority to their emotions and choose to follow their intrinsic feelings.They put away earthy prejudice and give no thoughts to external conditions.All these ensure a succeful marriage.In contrast, the
marriage of Carroline and Mr.Collins can never be a happy one because it is based on economics rather than emotion.And Lydia and Wickham\\'s marriage is an example of bad marriage because it based on superficial qualities which are sure to fade away with the paage of time.
In present-day society, though we lay le emphasis on economic elements, status and appearance, we are easily induced by them when considering a marriage.Often we neglect the purist feeling and choose to yield to money, rank or public opinions.We may even select our spouse in hasty, knowing little about his true character.All such behaviors will lead to an unsatisfying marriage later.Taking all these into consideration,
I come to the conclusion that we should always put emotion first and be responsible for our selection.

《傲慢与偏见》读书笔记怎么写？

已经不止一次读过简·奥斯汀的《傲慢与偏见》，而根据此书改编的电影我也细细看过两回。我想于读者而言，只读一遍，那么这最多只是一个曲折的爱情故事，而再读，便能走出这个爱情故事，在看到主人公身上所暴露出的人性的缺点后，开始去观察当时整个社会的状态，并试着去探索人与人之间正确的相处方式。
可以说，整本书从头到尾都离不开两个字：爱情。年轻男女相遇，难免产生爱慕之情，作者在书中塑造了多对情侣，通过不同人之间的对比，向我们揭示了爱情的真谛。爱情在于坚守，在于包容。就如宾利与简，身份的差距让人们对他们的爱情产生了质疑，宾利自己亦曾迷茫过，在达西和妹妹卡罗琳的劝说下狠心离开过简。但简对宾利却始终一往情深，站在爱情的原点，守护着一颗爱慕之心，当误会解除，宾利重又回到她的身边时，她选择包容，与宾利言归于好。这才是真正的爱情，被守护，被包容，最终得以绽放。爱情又在于理解，在于尊重。就如本书的男女主人公，初识于舞会，他们便有了误会，一个傲慢冷漠，一个满心偏见。从最初的争吵，到对彼此产生好感，他们二人都走在理解的路上，一个逐渐改变自我，一个则逐渐消除内心的偏见。尽管这条路并不好走，但他们最终都学会了尊敬对方。达西先生对伊丽莎白不再态度傲慢，尊重她的选择，而伊丽莎白也放下了满心的排斥，与达西走到了一起。这让我们明白，使我们清醒，真爱不是三两天的激情和冲动，而是缓缓的靠近，心贴心的理解，和一辈子的彼此尊重。