农村隔代教育的困惑怎么写?( 四 )


self-awarene,they like free way of life, they do not want to be tied, so the best way is to send their children to grandparents.The grandparents take care of children, the young parents can live a their own life.They can be more free.
3 Benefits of Inter-generational education
Old people have a rich social experience and deep thoughts on life, and they often have more extensive education experience,so that they can effectively deal witha lot of problems of children\\'s education, which is undoubtedly useful for the child\\'s healthy growth.In another word,grandparents own the favorable conditions for children\\'s education.At the same time, if grandparents educate children , young parents can be aured to work, it also can reduce their burden.These are
advantageous embodiment of inter-generational education.Objectively speaking, grandparents in caring for children indeed have many advantages.Simply put, there are three benefits of inter-generational education:First of all,one favorable is to the grandchildren.It is reported that a lot of "prodigy" is the result of extensive knowledge and experience of their grandparents.It is that old people make full use of their knowledge and experience to guide the children,so the grandchildren can broaden their horizon and get a lot that may not gain from school.What is more,this is still beneficial to the parents.Some parents are busy with their work, they just have no time.And some even do not know how to teach children.At this time, the grandparents can relieve parents\\' worries.So,these young parents could concentrate on the
busine.They can provide better economic conditions for the children.Last but not least,it is beneficial to grandparents , not only can reduce loneline,but also make the old feel them useful.Playing games with grandchildren help the elderly stay healthy and positive attitude of life.
4 Disadvantages of inter-generational educational
No one can doubt the love of grandparents on grandchildren, but for children, parents are irreplaceable, parent-child relationship is the most important.Indeed, inter-generational education has a rational side, but in general, disadvantages are
greater than profits.
4.1 lead to spoiled
Grandparents tend to spoil the children more than their parents, over-indulgent and accommodate are unfavorable to the child\\'s habits, personality development and skills enhancement.Many elderly people often have a psychological compensation, they usually want to give what they now own to their grandchildren that maybe never give their own children because of poverty.and this kind of love is often very easy to become unprincipled accommodation and spoiled.Grandparents are afraid that the children may tumble or lose,they help to do everything which is very unfavorable for the child\\'s growth.
4.2 Cause parent-child relationship to estrangement
The children live with the grandparents,they have been used to shield and accommodation,they do what they want but never be blamed.so when parents see their children\\'s shortcomings and deficiencies, they will propose strict requirements, the children will be very difficult to accept, so it will probably cause conflict and emotions between the formation of parent-child.So that the normal and neceary education become difficult; What\\'s more, when parents strictly require or punisha child, grandparents tend to intervene, which lead the children can not be corrected in time.The children do not know the intention of their parents, and just feel bad for their parents.As the long run, it is very vulnerable to cause parent-child relationship to estrangement.